Count on yourself so others can count on you.
"Will I be able to do this?" "What if I fail?" "How will others react?" "What will they think?" We all face these questions at different times in our lives. Yes, it’s not just you! We all share these behavioral patterns. These questions are merely a reflection of the doubt, insecurity, indecisiveness and uncertainty that we all share as thinking humans. It's Us and Them. We often compare ourselves to others. More often than not, this happens when we are in a state of self doubt, insecurity, indecisiveness or uncertainty about a certain choice we must make. We tend to fill our minds with these thoughts of self doubt. What this does is, it eats up our own thinking energy. So It does us no good in the end. By the time we realize this, we have already wasted much of our time and energy. A good comparison? You don’t really know very well these people that you’re comparing yourself to. What I mean to say is that you see their o...